There is a huge difference between lust v. love. Just because it gives you sexual stimulation doesn’t mean that it’s a good thing. The only source of sexual stimulation should be with your wife.
Even though the whores of the Earth are sending the message that their bodies are like objects, that can be used to sell products and there really is no boundary or limit, women who do have values and morals consider their bodies to be something very special and private. Women often feel insecure about their bodies because of all of the whores, plastic surgery done, and the touch ups that people get on their photos. It is like living in a fantasy world and feeling like we have measure up to the fake women because that is what most men want. Women want to feel like your “only one” and when you fill your mind with those whores and porn, you are violating that women’s need.
Just like women need to respect your temptations and not try to make it harder for you, even though we don’t understand your temptations fully – men need to respect a virtuous women’s pain and suffering that is caused by sexual addiction – even though you don’t understand it fully.
(please read my linked blog: “deployment & sexual intimacy” – the main message applies to all men and women)
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